We are group of 7. As like other groups we would pick one topic to discuss about during our lunch time. Discussions will be started with proper flow but it will landed up at something. I just got this topic from lunch time discussion. What I have shared here is my opinion. No offence ;)
Now a days most of my friends are getting married. Perhaps it must be the correct age to get married. But I am just wondering how they are choosing their life partner. On what basis ? When it comes to love marriage then there will not be any questions. But how are they identifying their better half in arrange marriage and how sure are they about their choices? Yeah, I am a girl but still I don't want to discuss it from girl side. It will be boring isn't? On a change I am going to discuss about how to choose a girl for a better half and why so. Here they come.
Choose a girl who is well-read: Yes, being well-read is very important. Being well read doesn't mean that she should read all chetan's books. It means having a rich taste of good books. It assures you that the girl has a taste, a preferences and she wont take shit. And if she agrees you which means you are something. This also means that she would prefer to say "hi" instead of "hieeeeee" ;)
Choose a girl who is not-so-gorgeous: A not-so-gorgeous girl is perfect. She would listen to you, treat you like a teddy bear rather than a pet dog. Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty and most importantly a beautiful soul. You are not choosing a girl for dating.
Choose a girl who has an ambition: Now this may sound preachy but it pays in the long run. The girl must have something other than you, gossiping and shopping to keep her busy with. It might be a desire to become a perfect in cooking, teaching business or writing blogs ;) It gives you breathing space and keeps her happy without an extra effort on your part. Suppose you would become a total sucker, this would run your family!
Choose a girl who is cool: This is very important now a days. Yes if she is over protective and over concerned about you then tell her that you a mom for such cute things. The girl who is not cool will be getting all emotional about some random crap that some guy said about their weight or dressing style. Choose a girl who shed her tears only when she cuts onion :p
Choose a girl who likes you, rather than admires you: Liking doesn't requires a reason. Admiration does. Admiration is for your qualities, liking is for you. You cant love a girl who admires you. You would give respect not pure love. Admiration creates wall between you and her.
Choose a girl who has some talent: Talents are interesting. Encourage her to pursue them, Make sure that she never gives them up for any reason. Appreciate her, It will make her happy and in turn, makes you happy. The one who has some talent will not accept the things blindly. So even if you do mistakes she would correct it.
