Real richness!

Being rich is a state of mind. It is possible that you could have millions stacked in your bank account and still have that feeling of deprivation. To live a life of richness, you need to embrace live whole-heartedly. Here are ways to add richness to your life.

Spend money wisely. There's no point in blowing up money on things you don't need. While shopping, concentrate on quality rather than quantity. So pick up one single statement piece rather just spending money on four/five outfits. Remember less is more. Stay away from those people who are negative.
Spend quality time with them and indulge in fun activities with people who are close to you. That creates a sense of love, affection.
The beauty of a rich life lies in simplicity. Simplify life, get rid of things and emotions that drain you of positive feeling and happiness.
A rich life is all about having a sense of gratitude. Count your blessings every day and have a sense of gratitude. You will attract more richness when you feel a sense of gratitude for all that you have.
Think of life beyond your work. Develop interests outside the boundary of your work. It could be poetry, painting, photography, cooking or reading.

Be physically active. Lethargy brings in a sense of negativity. Spend time outdoors and indulge in walking, trekking, swimming and running.  Have a Happy and Healthy life :)

Enjoy your independence and explore your individuality !

So this post is mainly to the girls out there who are waiting to fall in love, or are in love, or are trying to get over a heart break. 

Never depend on man for your happiness. There are a lot more things out there which makes you very happy. There are a lot more chances you can find happiness within yourself, and other things and people around you than that one person alone.  Happiness is to be perfectly content with yourself just as you are. 

Travel to new places, meet new people and collect different experiences, develops your personality and your outlook towards life. It is important to meet yourself before you meet the one to whom you would want to submit yourself in love. It doesn't mean that you should not do regular things that girls usually does. Just try out different activities including your regular activities. Write it down all the things that you want to try it out. It may be very silly things or may be very serious things. It is not necessary to share it with anyone, not even to your husband ;) Start implementing those things and you will feel the real happiness though you ticked single thing on the list that you have written it.

Freedom is not to be able to do whatever you want, but to be able to be who you truly are. Living on your own for at least a little while is therefore not a bad idea. You need to get out of your comfort zone and loose those crutches that make you feel safe. Freedom pushes you to be strong, independent and brave. And from all the mistakes you make while you are completely free, it connects you with yourself. women are in no way WEAK.

No matter how bad things get, you can always face and fight turmoil and turn things around to achieve happiness. When a woman puts her mind to it, she can have whatever she wishes for, whether it is getting over the broken heart or finding confidence to dance in a nightclub in a kurti :p The choices  you make in life can turn your life around. It all depends on what you choose to make of it.

Experience can make many versions of you, versions that are closer to the real you or better than what you are right now. The world is your playground. No matter where you come from or who you are, just let go and have fun and you may be surprised with what your life turns out to be and who you turn out to be!

Give your best as much as you can !!

First is always best and if you have good energetic people with you then it will become your bestest. Here I am going to share one of my bestest experience in Tree plantation.

On Wednesday (April 2 2014) morning I got a mail from CTC group for an event of Tree plantation program. Actually I was waiting for this event for a long time. Due to some reasons I was not able to attend the previous Back to our roots events. But this time I grabbed this opportunity and registered for Back to our roots event Instantly. I got a confirmation call and mail from an organiser. As far as I know when you are selected for CTC trek/even your inbox will be overwhelmed with emails. We are suppose to start from chennai on saturday afternoon and I haven't received any mail regarding transportation till friday evening. So my over active imagination intepreted that I got rejected from this event and that would be the reason for not getting mails from an organiser. I discussed with other CTC friends who are also registered for this event and posted a query to organiser through mail. Exactly at 12.47 AM I got a mail regarding transportation :)

I got ready for this event just with 2 set of clothes, 1 litre water  bottle and 1 bedsheet. I reached shozhinganalur aloft hotel at 3.20pm on saturday (5 April 2014 ). Over there I first met Kalaiselvi and Kavitha who were also waiting for this event.  If you get permission from your parents for something that you really wanted to do then then how  that feel would be?  I hope it will you give you the pleasure and completeness. I was like Wow! when I heard that Kalaiselvi and Kavitha are great mom and daughter. I saw another energetic participant Sandiya who is already occupied front seat of Skoda while I placed my backpack in boot. We started moving once Sinthu had arrived.  The four young girls were seated behind the driver and front seat was occupied by cheerful kalaselvi. Intially we were listening to melodies and had little chat between us. On the way to Mayilam we stopped nearer to melmaruvathur and had yummy yummy kumbakonam coffee. Meanwhile Sandiya escaped and joined with the guys who were travelling in tempo van along with saplings. Now in the car there are only 4 ladies and driver got upset with that. He played a sad song from 7 aam arivu "Yemma yemma enga ponnama" :p On our next halt we had our dinner. There I shared my food(2 parrotas and 1 egg dosa) with Ponraj, Adhik and Sanjev :p  Sandiya and Sinthu exhchanged their seats and we started. But this time driver played a rock song from Aayirathil oruvan of "oh easa" with high volume based on the request of our singer Sandiya.
On the way to farm we saw one person with white light on back ground in the dark night. Since we were in the car and it was moving we couldn't able to notify whether that person has legs or not :p
With that scary feelings we all reached our farm and came to know that dare devil was our organiser Sivakumar. Once we reached house 3 people who were all came early shared their food which was brought  by us. Sinthu was over excited and explained to her friend about this event through phone. Meanwhile her food was conquered by Manoj and Aravinth. Pity sinthu was left with hungry.

After a while we all settled and started for Ayya's talk. I am not going to share the talk of Ayya here in this blog. More active person in that group was Adhik  who was listening and fired questions continoustly. You wont believe how many questions that he asked. I am still wondering where and how did he get all those questions. Skinny person with lot of questions :p Sinthu who was sitting next to Adhik got tired because of Adhik's questions and ate half dozen of bananas.
   
Yet to continue .....