So this post is mainly to the girls out
there who are waiting to fall in love, or are in love, or are
trying to get over a heart break.
Never depend on man for your happiness.
There are a lot more things out there which makes you very
happy. There are a lot more chances you can find happiness
within yourself, and other things and people around you than that one
person alone. Happiness is to be perfectly content with
yourself just as you are.
Travel to new places, meet new people and collect different experiences, develops your personality and your outlook towards life. It is important to meet yourself before you meet the one to whom you would want to submit yourself in love. It doesn't mean that you should not do regular things that girls usually does. Just try out different activities including your regular activities. Write it down all the things that you want to try it out. It may be very silly things or may be very serious things. It is not necessary to share it with anyone, not even to your husband ;) Start implementing those things and you will feel the real happiness though you ticked single thing on the list that you have written it.
Freedom is not to be able to do whatever you want, but to be able to be who you truly are. Living on your own for at least a little while is therefore not a bad idea. You need to get out of your comfort zone and loose those crutches that make you feel safe. Freedom pushes you to be strong, independent and brave. And from all the mistakes you make while you are completely free, it connects you with yourself. women are in no way WEAK.
No matter how bad things get, you can always face and fight turmoil and turn things around to achieve happiness. When a woman puts her mind to it, she can have whatever she wishes for, whether it is getting over the broken heart or finding confidence to dance in a nightclub in a kurti :p The choices you make in life can turn your life around. It all depends on what you choose to make of it.
Experience can make many versions of you, versions that are closer to the real you or better than what you are right now. The world is your playground. No matter where you come from or who you are, just let go and have fun and you may be surprised with what your life turns out to be and who you turn out to be!
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